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Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognise, understand and manage your own feelings while reading and responding thoughtfully to others' emotions.

Emotional intelligence is the quiet skill of understanding feelings, both your own and other people's. It means noticing what you feel and why, managing big emotions without being swept away, and reading the room so you can respond with care rather than react on impulse. It shapes your friendships, your work and the way you treat yourself.

The lovely news is that it can be grown at any age:

  • Name what you feel instead of bottling it up
  • Pause before reacting when emotions run high

Little by little, you become calmer, more understanding and easier to be around. It is one of the most valuable forms of intelligence there is. To build the confidence that goes hand in hand with it, visit our guide to building real self confidence.

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